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Hehe. Just saw Ruthie comments. But I already wanted to vent something here.
My mum hinted again I should get settled down. SO LAME!!!

Why get yourself into trouble when you are free from it? To me, marriage is something that is going to tie you down FOR LIFE!!! SCARRYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

Life gets on even if you are single. But when you get someone to settle down, you are bonded for life!!!

The idea of living with someone you know for some time is horrible. I think there are people who doesn't know what they wanted or who they are till they are old. I think I am not mentally prepare to live that life. I also think that I need more time to understand myself. And for all I know all along, I trusted the wrong people.

Sometime you need someone to talk you when you are sad or down. However, they may not be always there for you. I'm sure there are also times that there are fights and arguments. People will get sad after that. There will be a scar then. You may kiss and patch up, however, the scar is always there and one party might just bring it up during the next fight. When that happen, things worsen. So when you are sad, that love one is also angry, hurt and sad. SO WHO SHOULD YOU CONFIDE IN??? NEVER WASH DIRTY LINEN IN PUBLIC!!! I see many relatives who fought but then they have to swallow it no matter how hard or difficult it is. They can't even confide in the closest kin.
The life that some couple lead are also horrible। They may be married in name, but they search for their own partners during weekends or change periodically. I hate this but I really see a lot of people around me doing this!!!

Later part in life, children come along. If you cannot handle your kids, passer-by will pass sarcastic remarks. "Aiyo, why the kids behave like that?" Or "EEE, the kids has no manners"
Life is so horrible. But if you don't want to have kids, people also comment lah. "Why they marry for so long liao, no kids huh?"

Maybe some more time later, you grow to dislike each other. Hate each other. Detest each other. Then what are you going to do? DIVORCE???!!!
That's most of the cases nowadays. In that case, why get married in the first place? The thing is that if divorce is the conclusion, why get yourself into all the trouble then???

Just ponder some questions like:
1. Is marriage sharing of financial burden?
2. Is marriage for life?
3. Is it just to make others happy?
4. We live for ourselves and not others, why should we care what others are thinking???


MY CONCLUSION!!!
NOT GETTING MARRIED UNTIL I FOUND THAT PERSON WHO CAN DO THE ABOVE!!!